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/con/ ~ I think I was molested in my early childhood. I ha...
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I think I was molested in my early childhood. I hardly remember anything before 6th grade and I think it's cause my mind has blocked it out. I'm 16 now and I get very uncomfortable when I see my uncle. He's very touchy with me, often rubbing my thigh and putting his hands on my waist, etc. I don't know what to do because I strongly believe I was molested by him.


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Tell your parents. Then the cops. They might not be able to arrest him now but they can keep him from hurting anyone else.


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I think you're a drama queen that wishes he was cute enough to be molested.


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>>167457
Nothing in his post hinted at that. Are you a pedophile trying to justify molesting a boy yourself?


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Guy or girl?


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>>167857

This is important ? What is the point ?

Because you are a drama queen we are pedo ?

Are you ultra feminist or something ?

Feminist extremist much ?


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Don't jump to conclusions about it. Your uncle could just be a very touchy man. Does he do this with other people?  

Perhaps he did molest you, or perhaps he didn't. It's a very serious thing to accuse someone of, and could potentially ruin his entire life, so please don't follow the first posters advice of telling everyone.

Have you thought of seeing a therapist, or asking your parents about your childhood? Maybe they'll say something to jog your memory. And what exactly makes you think you've been molested? I can barely remember my childhood too, I think that's normal for most people. :)


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>>167446
>>I hardly remember anything before 6th grade and I think it's cause my mind has blocked it out.
If your level of mental retardation is so high that you can`t even remember it, then where is the problem? If you don`t remember it, you can`t feel bad about it.

>>168247
>>I can barely remember my childhood too, I think that's normal for most people. :)
I also can`t remember everything i did in my childhood, but stuff like the first time playing doctor is something, which most children should remember. Though, it`s also questionable who buys all the Britney Spears CD`s, so perhaps such cases of mental retardation is just average?


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>>168248
If that's the case, I guess date rape should be fine, and if you're going to rape someone, drug 'em first! No. OP may have been violated and abused in a way which a responsible adult should be punished for. Whether they remember or not SHOULD matter. Not to mention he/she has every right to know what possibly could've happened when they were a child, and if they feel like they want to know about it, they should. 

They also won't remember being molested as the brain tends to hide away from traumatic memories. No-one has said this is 'playing doctor'. They could've been forcefully raped for all we know. Maybe it wasn't very enjoyable so OP hid it somewhere in their head. It's called repressed memory, and is quite common if I recall correctly.

OP, talk to someone about this, but DO NOT even mention you think your uncle did it. This is a serious accusation which could easily ruin his life, even if he's innocent. 


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>>168249
>>It's called repressed memory, and is quite common if I recall correctly.
Doctors also think there always must be a reason why teenagers commit suicide, like having had a `traumatic childhood experience`, although there actually never is only one reason why people do stuff like this.

Doctors also say it`s common that children get traumatized by child adult sex, no matter if it`s consensual or not. That`s the reason why there are children, who had sex with adults, get physically forced into therapy, after it came out, although they just wanted to live on with their life.

Doctors also say, that pedophilia is a mental illness, although there are many other studies, which actually prooved that it`s just a sexual orientation.

Doctors say a lot when the day is long. But why shouldn`t they? If there would be less `traumatized` children and `mentally ill` pedophiles, there would be less money they could make with their business :)


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>>168252
Yes, definitely. Doctors take 5-8 years of their lives and dedicate it to training JUST to make money. Not to help or heal people, why would they want to do that?

Not to mention how they just hate on pedos all the time. We all know those who commit the crime know WAY more about it than those that study it for years on end and get accounts from the actual victims themselves, duh!

Gosh, why is everyone against pedos, huh? I know this girl who knows this girl who was molested and she liked it. Oh but don't ask to see proof from anyone else, it's all a conspiracy against us and it gets deleted and hidden within seconds!


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>>168253
I hear some kind of poignant sarcasm in your words...
If you think i'm wrong, then tell me, how can physicians and therapists be interested in health, if peoples sickness constitute their own profit?

Check this shit out, for example:
http://www.realclearpolitics.com/video/2009/07/22/obama_doctors_taking_tonsils_out_for_money_instead_of_diagnosing_it_as_allergies.html

""Right now, doctors a lot of times are forced to make decisions based on the fee payment schedule that's out there. ... The doctor may look at the reimbursement system and say to himself, 'You know what? I make a lot more money if I take this kid's tonsils out,'" Obama told a prime-time news conference."

Or the so called "Pharmageddon crisis":
http://www.socialaudit.org.uk/60700716.htm

"Pharmageddon implies that we have now arrived at a tipping point where leading companies devote their main energies to marketing lifestyle products, rather than on finding ways of meeting real medical needs. The brave new world in prospect is one in which commercial imperatives trump health priorities, when Pharmas and followers systematically change our understanding and experience of what it means to be human, flattening the distinctions between cultures, degrading the clinical arsenal, and developing vast numbers of drugs, most not needed and all purporting to be best. The net result is not only therapeutic disappointment, but also crushing pressures that no public health system could ever survive. "

I know it's different than pedophilia, but for example, in Italy, you STILL have to fear about your life, when you say you are gay, in public! Same sex marriages are strictly forbidden there! I mean, are we still living in the mediaeval times, or what?!

This being said, i wouldn't be too sure about what "experts" say. I know i'm a pedo myself and many people don't care about my opinion, but to me, it rather seems as if these "experts" actually don't know anything at all about pedophilia, instead they just try to get rid of it. To me, it rather seems as if they are just some anurous bourgeois who never ever watched one vid of CP or something and just judge on reported cases of molested children and put all CP, pedos and children in one and the same boat.

If the child does not feel "victimized", then it is IRRESPONSIBLE and wrong to try and teach them that they were. If they feel good about those experiences and have fond memories, how does making them feel guilty and victimized, and angry and "damaged", benefit them? The truth is that it doesn't benefit the individual, but it DOES benefit those making a living from this kind of therapy and relying on child victims for their career. The more child "victims" in "therapy", the more therapists and counselors that are needed. That is the ONLY simple thing about this.


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>>168254
>If you think i'm wrong, then tell me, how can physicians and therapists be interested in health, if peoples sickness constitute their own profit? 
Because they want to HEAL people, hence why they took 8+ years of out their own lives to study and train up to do so (this can go on longer depending on what type of doctor). It's not even that great a wage, you get more by being a lawyer (which only takes about 4-7 years training). EVERY job has a profit in it, that's sort of the point in getting one! Would you take years and years out of your own time JUST to get a medium class wage? I can't even believe you're saying that.

Your 2 examples of making money are pretty bad, however removing useless tonsils and the non-harmful drug selling (which we read about in an article which has zero proof or evidence of it's claims) is hardly in the same league as traumatising young children and ruining their lives with guilt and hatred. 

>I know it's different than pedophilia, but for example, in Italy, you STILL have to fear about your life, when you say you are gay, in public! Same sex marriages are strictly forbidden there! I mean, are we still living in the mediaeval times, or what?! 
Yes, it seems we are. You can be put to death in Uganda for being gay. It's sick. But like you said, it's nothing like pedophilia.

>To me, it rather seems as if they are just some anurous bourgeois who never ever watched one vid of CP or something and just judge on reported cases of molested children and put all CP, pedos and children in one and the same boat. 
They do watch CP though. If there's ever a trial of molestation and their video of it, they watch it. If someone gets caught with CP on their hard drive, they watch it. ANYONE who works with molested kids has seen CP, it's pretty much expected unless you are just the therapist (even then you'd get the kids side of the story anyway, so you'd expect this be a joyous recounting of a happy time, but I guess not huh). It'd be like being a sexual health doctor, but being such a massive virgin you haven't even touched a member of the opposite sex, you know? Or being in a jury but you haven't seen any evidence or have any idea what the crime was.

>If the child does not feel "victimized", then it is IRRESPONSIBLE and wrong to try and teach them that they were.
Where are you getting that they do, though? Where have you heard this, or seen this? 

>The more child "victims" in "therapy", the more therapists and counselors that are needed.
Yes of course, it's all a secret hate filled conspiracy against pedos! We bleed the kids dry for money and at the same time make sure pedos can't do what they enjoy, haha! All because we hate pedos for some reason! Nobody would ever notice that their child was perfectly happy and fine 'til they went to therapy and we told them repeatedly that they were damaged and disgusting! It's not like people pay attention to their kids or anything, and EVERYONE who has been molested always tells someones! Fact! Oh and we don't get money from anywhere else, like a weekly wage, and we train up for years just to make kids feel bad and get a pretty middle class wage anyway!

Does this sound normal to you, do you believe this is really how it happens? :/


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>>168253
I know this is an old topic,but this thread has sparked my interest. Anyways if you read the latest report from the APA,it is said that not much is known about pedophilia and experts really aren't sure why some adults "sexually abuse" children. Well at least the APA admits that most child molesters ARE NOT pedophiles,but heterosexual men. 

Anyways there are 2 possible reasons why such a subject like this one lacks research. The first possibility could be grim,basically the government knows that sex doesn't truly scar kids and pedophilia is a natural sexual orientation. Still the government allows the pedo witch hunt to continue because even with pedophilia being natural we still can't be accepted by society because kids can't fully consent to sex like adults can...sadly the government still allows the the media to demonize pedos and scar kids with sex. As for the second possibility,basically the government along with doctors and scientists etc are just so disgusted with pedophilia to the point to where they don't want to understand pedophiles. Doctors are just too closed minded towards the subject because they are so disgusted with the subject. Now I'm not saying doctors don't know anything about pedophilia,and I'm not saying doctors don't understand children that have been scarred from a sexual experience with an adult . There is just one thing that many doctors fail at,doctors may understand how a scarred child reacts and behaves,but doctors don't even try to understand why a sexual experience with an adult scarrs them! Also doctors may know how pedophiles behave etc,but doctors don't want to understand how we feel about kids and almost everytime a pedo try's to explain his or her feelings towards kids society will just ignore us and people will just twist our words around and make us look like perverts. 

So basically most of the world is too primitive to understand pedophilia because people are just closed minded towards the subject. Anyways if my grammar is off its because I am very very sleepy! Good night.


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